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Dear Memphis,

We need to talk—about us, about our relationship, about where we’re headed. There’s so much to love about you—the songs you sing, the way you cook, and those beautiful spring afternoons. But I’m not sure those things are enough. There is so much potential for us, but there are some things we need to address to make this work.

When we started our lives together I was

It’s been ____ years now.

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Can you believe it? I know it’s hard to remember how we felt about each other at the beginning, but try. There’s so much energy and potential and excitement at the start of a relationship. I was immediately attracted to your:

Memphis, I never thought I’d say this, but if we can’t make this work, I’m really going to miss

We really had something then. And I think we might still have something. You’ve got some good qualities. There are things I love about you that you need to know. It’s like that poem. How do I love thee? Let me count the ways.

1. I love

2. I love

3. I love

But, Memphis, there are some things about you that I just don’t understand. I said it before and I’ll say it again—I need you to change. Because here’s the thing, if you love me, you’ll want to change. You’ll want to be better for me.

Let me tell you what frustrates me about you—what makes me feel unappreciated, disrespected or unloved:

1.

2.

3.

At the end of the day, I believe in us. I believe in our future.

You know what I see when I think about where we are going to be in ten years?

1. I see

2. I see

3. I see

I know we can do this. I know you can change. Because at the end of the day, it’s always been you.

Let’s stay together, Memphis.

Sincerely,

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